To say that we had a story of a supermom would be an understatement, but to say we had a story of only a supermom would be denying an amazing father his due credit as well. Each one is as much a part of this incredible story as the other. The husband and wife duo of Jason and Sylvia Middleton, both originally born and raised in Harlan, Kentucky had a story set that humbled me a bit after hearing it. I received a phone call from Sheila Falls. Sheila said it was laid on her heart to bring Sylvia up for attention with a story involving Mother’s Day. I jumped at the opportunity to tell it. I also soon learned it required the couple making hard decisions and sacrifices together to adopt a total of eight children, five of whom have special needs. All this while noticing the children in the home also did their part to make it work. It soon became “their” story. The story of Jason, Sylvia, Gabby, Ava, Madalie, Embersyn, Luke, Maisie, Livie and Reed.
The full unedited videos will be released Friday and put on our YouTube channel, so viewers have an opportunity to watch each individual story of their eight adoptions. You will soon meet this beautiful family while watching the video, and see that their challenges are real. The following is a diagnosis listing of what the family faces every day. Gabriana (Gabby) has Down Syndrome and Autism. Ava has Down Syndrome. Madalie has Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and Institutional delays. Embersyn has Mike-Moderate Development Delay of Unspecified Origin. Luke has Autism and Tracheal-Esophageal Fistula (eats with a G Tube although he is training to come off the tube). Maisie and Livie have no diagnosis but have developmental delays that have stemmed from being in foster care. The youngest, Reed, has Cerebral Palsy, Bilateral Polymicrogyria, Bilateral open-lipped Schizencephaly, Microcephaly and was a premature birth, born at 35 weeks. Each child has their unique story but the Middleton family has embraced these children with all the love they can pour out. They face their daily challenges with smiles and hugs.
The Middleton’s, having dated since their early teenage years and must have always known somehow that they were going to be together and raise a family. Although, they most likely didn’t know quite how wonderful and challenging it was going to be for them. They started out with one international adoption in mind, finding a beautiful little girl in the Ukraine. This first and particularly unique adoption of Gabby, cost them a lot of money but apparently gained them a volume of experience. With vast learning experience into how the system of international adoptions work, the couple decided to revisit the process and apply their hard earned knowledge. They managed to adopt two more children that way, this time without the massive financial strain the first adoption had put upon them.
Each of their stories is heartwarming, as every child was different making their way into the Middleton home. When asked if they had any natural children of their own Sylvia replied “We get asked that a lot and I really think it’s an odd question and I don’t always know how to respond because these are our natural children. To us, there is no difference in having a child biologically or rather through adoption. We love them just as much. We are a family. We decided long ago that we will not need to have biological children as we have our family here, through these circumstances, and we love it.”
The Middleton’s have also adopted children through foster care and a few of those are still in the process of being worked out. This is why during the video you may see some blurred faces to protect the children. The most recent adoption was an infant named Reed whom you will see in the video. Reed came into their lives as he was born to 14 year old parents. Jason and Sylvia were more than happy to offer their hearts and home to this beautiful baby. According to doctors, Reed has already surpassed any stage level development they expected. Of course, it only makes sense that constant love and attention, real love, given to any child would certainly have a positive impact. Mind stimulation and a nurturing environment in which one could thrive I’m certain is key. What child born with any type of handicap would not excel through love and affection as provided in this environment.
Hands down, I not only give this incredible woman, Sylvia Middleton a Mom Award in the appropriate month of May, but I also give the same shout out for the approaching month of June to her wonderful husband Jason for an absolute Dad Award in our book.
Sylvia shared a lot of information about adoption but time constraints in the original video would not permit all of it to be shown. However, that will all be available in the non-edited video that publishes Friday. The beauty of Facebook, our Volunteer Times media platform and other sources come together in a perfect storm in that we are able (with Sylvia’s permission) to also link her personal Facebook page to this story below. So, if you are one of those people that have been struggling with making an adoption decision be it internationally or domestically or if you’ve wondered about adoption through the foster system, Sylvia and Jason are both more than happy to answer any questions. They can assist in guiding you through the process should this be right for you. The Volunteer Times would like to thank Sheila Falls for reaching out to us about this amazing couple. Also, thank you to the Middleton family for granting me a small peek into their life on a warm, Spring day. I’m a better person for having met this incredible family. Another success story right here in Campbell County.